Five big stars for The Friend by Sigrid Nunez. I chose this book for the book club I run at the Cabinet Rooms in Winchester. It was pretty divisive, with lots of people actively disliking it, but I adored it.
An unnamed narrator is a writer and creative writing teacher living in Manhattan when a close friend of hers – someone she had a brief affair with and is also a writer and teacher – kills himself. The narrator is persuaded by the man’s widow to look after his Great Dane, Apollo even though her apartment doesn’t allow pets. This rather slight story is interspersed with musings about creative writing teaching, loss, suicide, friendship and much more. My father had recently taken his own life when I read it, and rather than it distressing me because of the links (I am still distressed by everything, so a book makes no difference) it brought everything into focus.
And it made a brilliant book club book even though many people hated it. There was so much to discuss and some of the things other members pointed out were brilliantly revealing.
Buy it from Bookshop.org here.
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GREAT book!!! I read it twice! I also rented the movie with Naomi Watts (who I love) but felt it fell short —
((hugs))